I used to wonder how much impact one person really has—on a private problem, on a community, or even on the world at large. Every time I found a spare minute, I’d pull out my phone and start scrolling through social media. Fifteen seconds here, ten-second clips there. The faster and more meaningless the content, the more I—and millions of others—devoured it. No thought, no effort, just endless distraction.
The Cost of Chasing Small Thrills
One afternoon I realized what I was doing: trading my most precious asset—the time of my conscious life—for tiny hits of amusement. I asked myself:
If we keep giving away our attention to mindless feeds, what kind of people will we become?
My hope was for a fair future, but I suddenly saw that the future being built by passive observers might look very different from what I imagined.
A Simple Chain Reaction
I tested the idea in my own circle. A friend told a small lie—nothing criminal, but dishonest. Instead of speaking up, I stayed silent. I justified it: “I don’t want to cause drama.” Yet by not objecting, I became an accomplice. That lie grew: it spread, was repeated, became accepted.
I realized: not reacting is itself a choice—a choice that lets harm flourish.
We all learn as kids: “Ignorance of the law is no excuse.” But what about the unwritten laws of human decency? If I ignore them, am I still responsible? By simplifying my responsibility, I ended up comfortable, unconcerned with things that hurt others—until those very hurts found their way back to me.
Observer vs. Creator
When trouble finally hit me—a project at work derailed because nobody spoke up, a friendship frayed because no one challenged a rumor—I was surprised. I told myself, “I never signed up for this!” But I had signed up, every time I chose to stand by and watch.
- Observers passively consume life’s headlines.
- Creators shape the story by speaking out, acting, and taking responsibility.
A Call to Awareness
If you catch yourself scrolling away yet another minute, pause. Ask:
Am I observing life… or creating it?
Use your time not just to watch, but to build. Call out a half-truth. Help when it hurts. Speak when it matters. Because every moment you choose to engage, you become more than a spectator—you become a force for the world you want to see.

